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demanding head of the restaurant. came from greece when he was 16 hoping for a better life. >> you have to work. you own a diner you gotta work more than eight hours a day. >> he met his wife patty while working in her dad's diner. do you think the greek work et sick why the diaper is successful? >> yes. >> he's been here 20 years hasn't taken a day >> oldest son another secret is experience short-order cook. a few sim elain greed cents, chicken, eggs, beef and potatoes. to make most dishes. fast. >> so you've got the burger going, somebody else has set up the plate. you call down there for the egg. >> yes. >> it all comes together on one plate. >> exactly. >> that's what i'm talking about. these are the little things that don't necessarily get done in a
>> now, kal along with his siblings, peter and theoni are being groomed to take over when archie finally puts his feet up. if they can handle it. >> they they have the work ethic? >> when they come here. when they're here. >> when they're here? >> getting them here sometimes is hard? >> very hard to get out of bed? course. >> are you guys willing to put in the hours he thinks it takes to be successful in this business? >> there's two of us. >> we'll split his hours the middle. that's perfect. >> despite the grueling hours, there's a reason to keep coming back. >> work so hard to get it where it is. it's part of our lives. we grew up in the diner. it's part of my life. i want to thank it for what it's given me. >> it's a sentiment found in many family-run restaurants. but why are so many diners run by greeks? >> the initial wave of immigrants they come over. open diners.
do they get globs they take over. >> food critic pete genovese literally wrote the book. >> they call it a diner, it was called a kafeneion. it's a place where the locals hung out. place to meet your buddies the there. most lonely place to find out what was going on in the community. >> gossip. >> exactly. local gossip. what is the american dibber today? that's the first place you want to find out who is doing what to whom this local scandal, what is getting indicted. >> we got the specials. >> for in this case and maria kallas, children of greek immigrantsa community family place all they have ever known. >> parents owned the diner together, we basically grew up together. my father was the front guy her father was the chef in the back. our families knew each other. >> the couple brought the nearly
in keyport, new jersey, last year. >> i always loved these little stainless steel diners. always wanted one. got a phone call. came down, we had breakfast. that was it. we said, yes, definitely. and i loved it. i fell in love with the town, everything. >> maria works the till. >> feels like you know everybody. >> family friendly. >> nick works the grill. >> the special today. a greek combo. chicken souvlaki, >> 9.95. >> it sells owl. >> you give it away. >> this is the best diner in new jersey! >> no wonder pete genovese just named it the number one diner in new jersey, beating out nearly 600 others. quite an accomplishment considering the state is the diner capital of the world. >> what do you attribute to your success? >> my wife. >> and with three boys, nick and maria kallas already have the
>> pauley: a surprise package with a lesson for us all. is the story our steve hartman has to tell. >> brandon and kathy gunn of northville, michigan, have been married nine years now. yet they just recently opened their last wedding present it. >> was by far the greatest gift because it taught us so many
>> the present was from kathy's great aunt allison, it came with a card that read "do not open until first disagreement." >> break in case of emergency, i hope this works. >> they needed it many times. but never opened it. >> you kind of wonder is it time to turn to the box? should we open the box? but what if the next spat is worse and we didn't have the box then what? >> so it sat. on the top pantry. through all the arguments about dishes left undone, through stress and slamming doors. even when they thought it wasn't worth it any more. brandon and kathy refused to surrender to that last wedding present. they finally opened the gift just recently. not because they were fighting but because they weren't. and hadn't for quite some time. after nine years of successfully resolving their differences, brandon and kathy were confident they would never really need the
unremarkable. some money for flowers and wine, some bath salts, nothing that could really stop a fight at all. and that's when it hit them. that the real gift wasn't anything in the box. that the real gift, the priceless gift, had been staring at them all along. >> everything we needed, we had between us. we just had to figure it all out on our own. >> by not turning to the box, brandon and kathy say they were forced to learn tolerance, compromise and patience. something we could all use more of this week. because there's nothing magical about wedding gifts or ballot boxes. the keys to harmony are in us. all we have to do is dig deep and find them. >> pauley: next, close up on warren beatty.
>> they're so great looking, you know. i'm doing their hair, they smell great. makes my day. makes me feel like i'm going to live forever. >> it's "sunday morning" on cbs. >> pauley: that's warren bitty with goldie hawn with "shampoo." just one of the roles that make him a hollywood legend. and hollywood is where mo rocca joaned him for a recent piece. >> you don't have a star. why not? >> well, you don't have to have a star if you don't want to, you know. >> come on. >> let's face it.
need a star on hollywood boulevard to remind people that he's a living legend. >> this is his first movie role. >> in 191 made him household name. >> i can think of things i'd rather do. >> this theater was, was the first theater we ever showed "bonnie and clyde" in. >> i'm blade. >> he was only 29 when he produced and started opposite faye dunaway. >> we rob banks. >> a movie milestone that forever changed the way hollywood depicted violence.
one an oscar for directing "red" a 3.5 hour epic about american communists in the early 20th century. buttist not just his work that's captivated the public for over half a century. it's also his love life. he has had relationships with julie christie, diane keaton leslie caron was rumored to be linked with, well, a lot of beautiful women. so much to talk about. >> did you have mentors early on? >> i got to meet producers and directors and screen writers. >> but as we learned when we sat down with him at the american film institute in los angeles, warren beatty isn't the easiest person to interview. does anyone spring to mind as
>> when you say, name somebody, i always avoid that. that's why i'm such a bad interview. >> billionaire. >> warren beatty has movie to promote so here we are. in "rules don't apply" he plays the famously secretive billionaire howard hughes. >> have you heard from people that i'm crazy? >> the film centers on an aspiring actress from virginia and her driver, going small towners, who struggle to keep their religious values intact in 1958 hollywood. >> she still believes that once you've been intimate or gone am the way with a person in the eyes of god you're committed to that person for the rest of your life. >> i agree with sarah. that's why i've never done it. i have to be sure. >> beatty himself was raised southern baptist in virginia
the late '50s. one of the characters in the movie says "once you've been intimate, you're married." was that your understanding when you were growing up? >> i would say that as a teenager i was -- all over the lot. i didn't know for sure what i felt about all of those things. >> i don't want to pontificate on your show. about this. because you're editing and i'm not. and so i want to be very clear about what i say. and i have learned in my own period of being -- what's the word, famous or well-known? >> yeah, famous. >> i have learned that i -- i -- if i want to say something i should say it myself.
his new movie. >> at first i thought that it was a movie, mainly about howard hughes. then my own self obsession took over i thought, no, no, this is -- what i'm more -- as interested is in what was hollywood like when i came here. >> beatty's howard hughes is a man obsessed with his privacy. >> may i give you some advise? >> yes. >> never trust anybody. >> he very out of sight. and he -- he was very interested in controlling the image of -- how he was seen. now i see a look on your face you're going to say, how is that in common with me? well, i'll tell you what the -- the title that most interested me in a long time was that customer lash title of his book called "the culture of narcissism." >> in my defense i wasn't going to call you a narcissist, you're a control freak but i wasn't
but ask anybody that works with me, i -- i -- i want them to give feedback and i -- i do collaborate with smart people. >> and warren beatty is friends with a lot of smart and famous people, in politics and, of course, in hollywood. >> do you see this booth? it's -- it's in that booth that i first met jack nicholson. >> that booth is in holly famed musso and frank grill. >> first time i ever met jack was in 1964, i think. '65. >> by then his older sister was already a star. >> you know what's funny is a lot of people watching that won't know until now that you're -- >> sirly mcklain is my sister. >> isn't that funny? >> you never made a movie together? >> it would have been neat.
>> wouldn't have that play brother and sister. >> we should play man and wife. that would not be a good idea. >> that would be pushing the envelope a little too much. >> that would be throwing the envelope away. >> may i? >> and there's another woman warren beatty will talk about. >> the way you were staring at me i thought you were going to ask me for something a little more exciting. >> like what? >> use your imagination. >> i'm using it. finished. >> he met actress annette bening during the production of 1991's "bugsy" they have four children. >> this is part of the interview where you we talk about how much you love your wife. >> yeah. >> how much do you love your wife? >> it is the most intelligent thing that i ever have done. my life has completely flowered with annette and the kids.
every respect. >> what do you think your life would be like if you hadn't met annette? >> i -- i try not to think about it. >> i mean, would you be on tinder? >> on continued snore i'm in the very good on the -- on that stuff. >> you wouldn't be like dating kardashian? we don't know. it seems that after 58 years in hollywood, warren beatt and his marriage. and let the rest speak for itself. next march you will have been married for 25 years. >> that is correct. it seems like 25 weeks. i feel very positively about it and -- and very lucky. and i -- i could go on and on
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>> to understand just how far trevor noah has come to be the host of comedy central's "the daily show." listen to his very first joke on his very first night. >> i'm not going to lie, growing up in the dusty streets of south africa i never dreamed that i would one day have, well, two things, really. an indoor toilet and a job as host of "the daily show." [ applause ] >> and his first year on the job has been a thriller. >> this morning if you finally woke up from a coma, well, you might want to go back. the most stunning upset in political history is trump. >> with the strangest election in memory finally over. >> this entire result is like trump's hair, i know it's real but my mind can't accept it.
hard to accept trevor noah as replacement for long time host jon stewart. when "the daily showism" came out said, trevor noah, our new host, america was like, who? >> it was. you know, my favorite thing it was like america was like, who? and then there was, like, a subset of people in america, many of them immigrants, many of them people family overseas they were like, finally! >> t thought of himself as an outsider. born mixed race, he grew up in south africa during the racially segregated time known as apartheid. >> it was blatant. you must remember, apartheid was the best racism. this is not in a joking manner. people don't realize how well thought out apartheid was. >> his mother was south african
his father a swiss national was whites. their court ship, a favorite subject of his stand up routine. >> my mom was like, woo, i don't care, i want a white man! and my dad was like, well, you know how the swiss love chocolate. >> what wasn't funny was that his parents, legally forbid tone marry, broke the law not only for being together but also by having him. crime." >> i remember my dad used to love rubbing with me. i ran with him in the park and the street then when i got older, he wasn't running with me, he was running from me. this was man who couldn't be seen with this child because then the game would be up. the lie would be revealed. >> though, today, it seems hard
a mixed race family could mean a fine for his father, arrest for his mother and an orphanage for him. >> my mom was genius. she was friends with a woman who was my skin color. you know, a woman who was a different race, but my skin color. she would get her to act like she was my mom. and then my mom would walk with us in the streets act like she was my maid. act like she worked for us. that's the world we lived in. my mom found a way to nav the world. >> feeling like an outsider in both black and white communities, noah credits his mother for getting him through the worst of times. >> she said, i can't promise you money. i can't promise you a good life. but i can promise you the knowledge and food. those are the two things i'll make sure you get. >> ladies and gentlemen, please welcome, trevor noah! >> there was also humor, as noah
for laughs. >> we laugh at everything. case in point. >> even the very painful ones. >> my mother was shot. shot twice, once in the ass then shot in the head. yeah, got serious. >> in 2009, noway's mother was shot twice by her ex-husband in a drunken rage. it was humor that helped his family heal. >> when when your mom was shot? even during that time. >> my mom looks, shh, trevor, don't cry, no, mom, i'm going to cry you were shot. she said, no, look on the bright side. what bright side? no. because of my nose. you're officially the best looking person in the family. >> she was the first one to make a joke. we still joke about it to this day. i see some people look at me with pity when i tell these story, no, it's not story of
americans don't know a lot about south africa. >> about that time he began performing in small clubs around the u.s. >> oh, my, god. you're from africa. how did you get here? >> but american audiences didn't know what to make of an african comic who looked and sounded like noah. >> next comedian from africa. >> people think guy in leopard skin will come running on the stage. ? let me tell you monkey jokes. >> but one american in particular did get it. >> very pleased to welcome our newest contributor from south africa mr. trevor noah. thanks for joining us. >> jon stewart. who hired him as a daily show correspondent. only four months later he was tapped as stuart's successor. >> remember being weak.
i would have fallen, i would have fainted. >> welcome to "the daily show." >> a year in it hasn't been all laughs. ratings for "the daily show" are down. but on the plus side online and global viewer ship is u7. >> we should go camping, i'm like, why. would y would i do that? worked so hard to not camp. >> noah still manages to perform stand up almost every weekend. it's where the to be at his happiest. [ applause ] and though he's far from home it's the lesson of home that remind him just how far he has come. >> one day i woke up and i went, wait, what's the worst that could happen? what do i lose? what do i have? is it failure? is it -- do you know how far i'm come in my life? do you know where i've come from
sitting here. there's no such thing as failure in my world right now. >> what do some of the tombstones look like? >> unrecognizable. >> pauley: coming up. lest we forget. usp. an independent organization that sets strict quality and purity standards. nature made. the number one pharmacist recommended vitamin and supplement brand. of young people when they thought they should start saving for retirement. then we asked some older people when they actually did start saving. this gap between when we should start saving and when we actually do is one of the reasons why too many of us aren't prepared for retirement. just start as early as you can. it's going to pay off in the future. if we all start saving a little more today, we'll all be better prepared tomorrow.
>> pauley: president obama placed the wreath at the tomb of the unkn friday. to honor our veterans. anna warner has found a florida man honoring fallen heroes as life long commitment. >> in cemeteries across america, you will see them. headstones blackened by age and the elements. what did some of these tombstones look like? >> they're unrecognizable.
were very dirty. >> and what troubled andrew lumish more was, many belonged to veterans. what disturbed you about that so much? >> they were forgotten. i couldn't properly thank them. i couldn't properly understand who they were or what they were about. lumish made it his life's goal to scrub away that grime and uncover the names on headstones so visitors would see them. >> if they can't read it at all, they can't celebrate it, they can't honor that person. they can't appreciate that person. where as, if you properly restore the monuments, you can begin an entire conversation and potentially in a figurative sense, bring that person back to life. >> lummish's regular job is specialty cleaning.
his own method for cleaning them. >> i scrub. and i scrub. i get the edges. i get the letters. i get the numbers. it could take 20 minutes. it could take two hours. >> and his results are stunning. this is what a grave stone from 1917 looked like before he cleaned it. and now. most any sunday you can find him you live in tampa. you could be at the beach on sundays. >> yeah, i could. absolutely. this is more fun for me. >> this is more fun? >> hands down. seven days a week. 365 days a year. if i could do this every day, i would. >> he set up his facebook page titled with his nickname "the good cemetarian."
veterans' lives, filled with the stories of the men and women beneath the grave stones. he gets a lot of thanks from veterans and their families for what he does. but has trouble feeling like he deserves it. >> i am appreciative of it. but i'm unworthy of the same respect of someone who chooses to -- to go the route to serve our country. for someone to approach me to show me that level of respect is humbling to say the least. >> bringing back the names and lives of veterans, he says, is just what he does. >> i get to everyone eventually. >> that's a tall order. >> not if you love doing it. >> there are thousands of tombstones, monuments. >> i'm going to live a long
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>> pauley: now a look at the election, by the numbers. as of this morning, hillary clinton leads donald trump in the popular vote. still, donald trump has won more than the required 270 votes in the electoral college, which actually decides the election. it's the fifth time the popular vote winner has ended up a loser. history records four others.
samuel tilden to rutherford b.hayes, grover cleveland to benjamin harrison. and, of course, al gore to geyer. to geyer. now consider this, almost 47% of eligible voters didn't vote last tuesday. the highest no-show rate since 1996. donald trump will be the first president to have served neither elective office nor empty military and milan i can't trump will be the second foreign-born first lady. the first was louisa adams, wife of john quincy adams she was born in england. it's a fact, the "washington post" says the number of visits to his fact checker site in this campaign season was five times the number reported four years ago. which brings us to our resident political fact checker, john
nation." good morning. >> dickerson: good morning, what's a trump administration going to look like we'll talk about that with former house speaker newt gingrich who is advising him. the democrats, what do they do next this we'll talk with bernie sanders about his new book and direction of the democratic party. >> pauley: thank you. next week here on "sunday morning." eat, drink, be merry the food issue. i even accept i have a higher risk of stroke due to afib, a type of irregular heartbeat not caused by a heart valve problem. but i won't go after anything with less than my best. so if i can go for something better than warfarin, i'll do that too. eliquis. eliquis reduced the risk of stroke better than warfarin. plus, it had significantly less major bleeding than warfarin. eliquis had both.
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captioning sponsored by cbs >> dickerson: today on "face the nation," mr. trump goes the washington and takes a victory lap after the greatest real estate acquisition of them all, the white house. the ultimate outsider begins his transition to the highest office in the land amidst promise and protest. will president-elect trump change washington, or will washington change him? will he keep his more controversial campaign promises, or is everything negotiable? >> they're talking about a fence in the republican congress. would you accept a fence? >> for certain areas i would. but certain areas a wall is more appropriate. >> dickerson: we'll get a preview from his first post-election interview that will air tonight on "60 minutes." plus can trump unify the republican party and the nation? >> we are now talking about how we're going to hit the ground running to make sure that we can